忧

其实，自己很不孝。
我懂我可以付出的有多少。却没有尽全力。
广东省病情蔓延。有些担心。
一定要平安。

Childhood Toys

Heard this over the TV this evening.

Older times, toys are for fun.
It brings happiness.
Having fun and companionship is the goal.
Joyful laughters are everywhere.

Nowadays, toys create tension.
It brings frustration.
Winning and breaking high score became priority.
Competitive is very common.

Innocence is priceless.
Children, don't grow up too quick please...

I Need An Angel Too...

It takes time to realize...
Or should I say, finally take it serious into what one have realized all these while.
It took me quite some years.
And I am still learning to put them into action....

I need an angel.
To keep me strong from doing what I should be doing.
And continue to believe that I can make it.

Was being addressed as an angel for twice within one week time..
For sharing what I have realized based on my past experience..
Glad that they addressed me as an angel and not a busybody.

I need an angel too.
Anyone?

Women in Men's World

I always wish to say there are equal rights between men and women.
I always love to believe that women are as capable as men.
However, it is really different.
Capability wise, gender is not a key variable.
But....
The way women handle emotions.
The way women "battle" in their career.
Priorities.....
I have seen too many females who bring personal emotions to work.
And let them affect their decisions.
Including myself.
Am I losing focus?

期待与失落

期待与失落

很矛盾的组合

从来不曾期待

则从来不会感到失落

然而

麻木乏味

意义何存？

可是一旦期待

到头来希望一一落空

失落

无限扩张

何其难过？

不想躲进那个自我封闭的壳

却无法克服问题的基本根源

。。。。。。

Dream & Happiness

Life has been harsh.
But that's the best part of living.
Now I feel like a human. With flesh and blood.
Have been living the life of a robot for quite some time.
Happiness comes with pain.
I rather have it both, then to live without emotions.
Am I truly happy?
What a question.
I do not have an answer.
I have a dream in my heart.
Or should I say I have some dreams.
Each of them leads to a different path.
But they could have a cross point at some time.
What I am very sure of, is that I have to be responsible for my own happiness.
This is the starting step to any of my dreams.
:)

你能分清楚爱和喜欢吗？

喜歡和愛咫尺千里。

當你喜歡一個人時,你想和他在一起,因為他會帶給你快樂; 離開後,你會想念,想著想著就會笑,然後繼續你平靜的生活,並期待著與他再一次重逢。
當你愛一個人時,你想和他在一起,那是一種牽腸掛肚的捨不得,怕他受委屈,怕他不能好好照顧自己; 離開後,你也會想念,想著想著歎一口氣,'不知他現在過的怎樣？' ,然後你繼續你平靜的生活,希望他早日回到你身邊。

你喜歡的人在你眼中是天使,無所不能,他總會滿足你的任性的要求。
你愛的人在你眼中是孩子,傻傻的,你不期望他做出什麼'好事'來,只一味縱容他那些讓人哭笑不得的舉動。

你會希望你喜歡的人陪著你,然而你心中想的可能是你愛的人;
你會希望陪在你愛的人身邊,看他在你面前睡得如此安逸甜美毫不設防的樣子,你會微笑,會覺得 好幸福。

你喜歡的人傷害了你,你會生氣,並且一定要讓他哄著騙著逗你笑你才原諒他;
你愛的人傷害了你,你只會獨自傷心,因為你怕對他大吼大叫會嚇著他,你憂傷地微笑著,看著他的眼睛, 一旦發現他的眼裡流露出歉意和悔恨,你會立即心疼地摟他在懷裡,那一刻,你也是幸福的。

你可以同時喜歡很多人,你會希望和很多人在一起,
但也許很多年後你才發現,原來你愛的就只有那麼一個,
就那麼一個,怎麼都不會變,你以為把他忘記了,其實只是忙的沒空想起而已,

對於你喜歡的人,你關注的是他的優點;
對於你愛的人,你關注的是他的缺點,並且,那些缺點如果無關原則的話,它們在你眼裡是可愛的,獨一無二的。

喜歡和愛其實只有一紙之隔,任 何愛都從喜歡開始,當有天你突 然發現,你喜歡的那個人在你眼中不再完美,而他的瑕疵正如月中的桂影一般讓你更加依依不捨,你會覺得與他光彩照人的一面相比,你更願意看他在你面前無助的表情,不知道是不是應該祝賀你,總之,你的感情昇華了

——
仰慕不是愛,甚至不是喜歡,當你對一個人只有仰慕之情時,你們 在一起便失去了和諧。
有人說愛一個人很累,的確是,因為你想為他承擔,可是愛與喜歡相比最大的魅力就在於, 當你和愛的人在一起時,你的感覺就像回家了!

我想我明白。。

无奈

横冲直撞
好像该停止了
犹豫过 坚持过 努力过 感伤过
这一切的结局只剩无奈
该做的就是让自己好过
呵呵
相爱总是简单 相处太难
不是你的就别再勉强